F: Chronic Frustration :Chronic Frustration means the goal we have set for ourselves or image we have of ourselves is inadequate or both .
The key remedy lies in reworking on one's goal and priorities and thus altering one's own self image in the required manner
A: Aggressiveness :Aggressiveness by itself could be positive and becomes a failure trait only when it's misdirected.The best channel for all aggression is therefore in working towards some goal.
I:Insecurity :Often we compare our actual abilities to an imagined perfect ideal.Man is only goal seeking mechanism not arriving ever at any absolute quality or destination.
L:Loneliness :Loneliness is best countered by getting accepted through social contacts and contribution without fear or ridicule or humiliation
UR:Uncertainty: Uncertainty is rooted in sheer inaction for fear of possible failure or rejections.
E:Emptiness: Emptiness is often generated by trying for success to please others inconsistent with one's own true inner needs. naturally , so even after obtaining the desired objective, one feels unfulfilled and empty , as if he had got something which he had not deserved.
Thus understanding the various issues involving the failure mechanism within, one could help unravel the bottlenecks to progress.
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